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Malays weddings customs The wedding customs of Malays are very distinctive. The wedding was held in the woman's house. It lasts for a week. It includes the man who brings a gift to the woman's house to pick up his relatives, teaches the chief to read the blessings for the newcomer, hold a newcomer bathing ceremony and wedding ceremony. Seven days later, the groom could return to his home and the dowry back to his home. During welcoming relatives, the man walked halfway, and the woman walked halfway; the man had to dress up like a senior official, and greeted the bride with great happiness with an umbrella; not in a good mood.
The climax of the Malay wedding is to sit together ". In the first two or three days of" sitting and sitting ", there is also a ceremony of decorating and dyeing palms. Teachers are decorated with beauty and makeup for them. The current situation is slightly different. They do n’t like to be a haircut, and they have a beauty room to ask the beautician to dress up for them. After the bride is made, they must bath. Efficacy. The process of dyeing palms: private dyeing, small dye and large dye. Although the palm dyeing palms are divided into three processes, each ceremony is the same. The bride must participate in all the rituals, and the groom participates in his own home to privately participate in his own home. The ritual of dyeing and small dyeing, and then participating in the etiquette of the female house. In recent years, the Malays seem to have gradually given up the trend of private dyeing and small dyeing ceremony, but only the emphasis on dyeing. Female house, please sit on "Sitting on the stage". There is a copper plate with feet in front of the stage, and a beautiful nail flower paste is placed in the middle of the disk. There are three dishes around. , Baked rice and water mixed with mixed mountain and ginger leaves. This small dish is still placed. The roots are sprayed with fragrance leaves. The ceremony starts, first hosted by male guests. Seeing an older guest standing in front of the material and sitting on the stage ", took a little yellow rice to the right shoulder of the groom, and sprinkled it on the left shoulder. Then take some roasted rice, as if sprinkled with yellow rice again. Then, he dipped some mountains and ginger water with a sprayer of fragrant leaf, and sprayed the back of the groom's hands. In the end, he took a little nails on the palm of the groom, but the groom's palm would not be dyed, because before the palm of the palm, the mother -in -law's agent immediately put two slices on his palm. After dyeing his palms, the groom closed his hands and raised his chest to thank the host. All guests can take turns to be the host regardless of men and women. According to the customs of the Malay, the male guest should be presided over by the male guest. will only be the female guest afterwards, and the number of people who host must be single, because the Malay people believe that the doubles are fierce. Although the Malay invited friends from friends to participate in the wedding ceremony at various stages, the Footnaluts only allowed to watch the ceremony, and they could not host the ceremony. Is after the groom's ceremony is completed, he goes home first with his relatives and friends, and then the bride participates in the ceremony. The ceremony process is exactly the same as the groom. From the afternoon until midnight, the bride's guests were full of singing, and the atmosphere of noisy and joyful atmosphere left a deep impression. The "sitting ceremony '' is the climax of the Malay marriage and ceremony, usually held in the afternoon of the last day of the marriage. Influence, the etiquette gradually evolved. "The style of the" and the "coexistence of the platform is very similar to the Throne of Malay Sudan. The stage is divided into three levels, the lowest second level is about half a foot, and the top level is about two -foot high. Silk surrounds it, and then install the festive light, one bright and dark, the colorful J shading is good -looking. The best one of the one is a pair of new people sitting together with a cushion and a strong color jacket and a competent back. When you are on it, look down at the guests, like the king's early dynasty. No wonder the Malay friends said that the couple who "and sitting with gifts" is as noble as the king. The relatives and friends who invited the ceremony went to the appointment early, and also brought gifts: rice, oil, eggs, flour, and cups, discs, cloths, or cash. The careful owner must entrust a loyal relative to register for the names and gifts of his relatives and friends. Gifts. In this way, in the future, the guests of the guests are married to the banquet. The elderly relatives brought down, moved lightly, and slowly walked out of the new house. She closed the autumn water slightly, the noodles were low, showing the unlimited coquettish look. Mai. The bride still closed his eyes and answered shame. In the concept of the Malay, this is the manifestation of chastity and the most precious sentiment of women. Basically Well, the countryside may just take a platform at home, but this "sitting together" is more unique. Brunei is also Islamic State. Many basically similar to the Malay people, so the princess and the horse are also sitting together! Malaysian Chinese wedding customs Most Chinese in Malaysia are from Guangdong, Fujian, Hakka, Chaozhou and other places. They also have different wedding customs. On the day of Chinese weddings Relatives and relatives accompanied the bride's house to pick up the bride (to choose the Jishi of the day). The newcomer worshiped the bride's parents and elders. After that, the bride received the bride to the new home. Worshiping God. Usually Chinese weddings are to send a red envelope to show auspiciousness. There are no specific standards for gifts. Usually, you can get 100 MIT when you come to participate. I just have my own mind. "Rarely like thousands of domestic ones!
above is the ordinary wedding mode of Malaysians. The following is a personal experience of just becoming a Malaysian Chinese daughter -in -law: 1 1. Select Liangchen Ji Ri bride in the morning to pick up the bride . The two are the same as the bride's parents. Well, the next one will be different 3. After receiving the groom's house, first worship the ancestor. The eldest son of the Chinese general usually has the ancestor tablet, so you must first worship the man's ancestors. Go to his uncle's house. 4. Worshiping a good ancestor, the groom's family arranged two special chairs, and then a round of tea to pay for all relatives and elders, even if my sister had to respect it. For example, Grandpa and grandma are sitting first. We give them tea. The generation is also given, the younger is cash. In the old era, this is the older thing! To kneel on the ground, you must respect all the people. JMS has already said, I can't eat this, I don't think it can be eaten. However, in the portions of those gold and silver jewelry and red envelopes, I endured it. 5. Waiting for a large circle of tea, it is basically late, so go to the hotel to wait for the opening! Malaysian Chinese wedding banquets usually start from 6:30 to 7:30 in the evening. There will be some celebration rituals during the table. The dishes of the wedding banquet are usually 6-8. Each serving is only one, and then the dish is served after eating. After that, there are main meals, desserts and sugar water. Before drinking wedding wine, there is still a sign -in ceremony. At that time, everyone still has to prepare a red envelope to indicate the gift of wedding wine! 6. After dinner, they usually dispersed, but friends with good relationships with young people may get together next. The red envelopes are too late! Basically, this is the process of Chinese wedding!
Malays weddings customs
The wedding customs of Malays are very distinctive. The wedding was held in the woman's house. It lasts for a week. It includes the man who brings a gift to the woman's house to pick up his relatives, teaches the chief to read the blessings for the newcomer, hold a newcomer bathing ceremony and wedding ceremony. Seven days later, the groom could return to his home and the dowry back to his home.
During welcoming relatives, the man walked halfway, and the woman walked halfway; the man had to dress up like a senior official, and greeted the bride with great happiness with an umbrella; not in a good mood.
The climax of the Malay wedding is to sit together ". In the first two or three days of" sitting and sitting ", there is also a ceremony of decorating and dyeing palms. Teachers are decorated with beauty and makeup for them. The current situation is slightly different. They do n’t like to be a haircut, and they have a beauty room to ask the beautician to dress up for them. After the bride is made, they must bath. Efficacy.
The process of dyeing palms: private dyeing, small dye and large dye. Although the palm dyeing palms are divided into three processes, each ceremony is the same. The bride must participate in all the rituals, and the groom participates in his own home to privately participate in his own home. The ritual of dyeing and small dyeing, and then participating in the etiquette of the female house. In recent years, the Malays seem to have gradually given up the trend of private dyeing and small dyeing ceremony, but only the emphasis on dyeing. Female house, please sit on "Sitting on the stage". There is a copper plate with feet in front of the stage, and a beautiful nail flower paste is placed in the middle of the disk. There are three dishes around. , Baked rice and water mixed with mixed mountain and ginger leaves. This small dish is still placed. The roots are sprayed with fragrance leaves. The
ceremony starts, first hosted by male guests. Seeing an older guest standing in front of the material and sitting on the stage ", took a little yellow rice to the right shoulder of the groom, and sprinkled it on the left shoulder. Then take some roasted rice, as if sprinkled with yellow rice again. Then, he dipped some mountains and ginger water with a sprayer of fragrant leaf, and sprayed the back of the groom's hands. In the end, he took a little nails on the palm of the groom, but the groom's palm would not be dyed, because before the palm of the palm, the mother -in -law's agent immediately put two slices on his palm. After dyeing his palms, the groom closed his hands and raised his chest to thank the host.
All guests can take turns to be the host regardless of men and women. According to the customs of the Malay, the male guest should be presided over by the male guest.
will only be the female guest afterwards, and the number of people who host must be single, because the Malay people believe that the doubles are fierce. Although the Malay invited friends from friends to participate in the wedding ceremony at various stages, the Footnaluts only allowed to watch the ceremony, and they could not host the ceremony.
Is after the groom's ceremony is completed, he goes home first with his relatives and friends, and then the bride participates in the ceremony. The ceremony process is exactly the same as the groom. From the afternoon until midnight, the bride's guests were full of singing, and the atmosphere of noisy and joyful atmosphere left a deep impression.
The "sitting ceremony '' is the climax of the Malay marriage and ceremony, usually held in the afternoon of the last day of the marriage. Influence, the etiquette gradually evolved.
"The style of the" and the "coexistence of the platform is very similar to the Throne of Malay Sudan. The stage is divided into three levels, the lowest second level is about half a foot, and the top level is about two -foot high. Silk surrounds it, and then install the festive light, one bright and dark, the colorful J shading is good -looking. The best one of the one is a pair of new people sitting together with a cushion and a strong color jacket and a competent back. When you are on it, look down at the guests, like the king's early dynasty. No wonder the Malay friends said that the couple who "and sitting with gifts" is as noble as the king. The relatives and friends who invited the ceremony went to the appointment early, and also brought gifts: rice, oil, eggs, flour, and cups, discs, cloths, or cash. The careful owner must entrust a loyal relative to register for the names and gifts of his relatives and friends. Gifts. In this way, in the future, the guests of the guests are married to the banquet. The elderly relatives brought down, moved lightly, and slowly walked out of the new house. She closed the autumn water slightly, the noodles were low, showing the unlimited coquettish look. Mai. The bride still closed his eyes and answered shame. In the concept of the Malay, this is the manifestation of chastity and the most precious sentiment of women.
Basically Well, the countryside may just take a platform at home, but this "sitting together" is more unique. Brunei is also Islamic State. Many basically similar to the Malay people, so the princess and the horse are also sitting together!
Malaysian Chinese wedding customs
Most Chinese in Malaysia are from Guangdong, Fujian, Hakka, Chaozhou and other places. They also have different wedding customs. On the day of Chinese weddings Relatives and relatives accompanied the bride's house to pick up the bride (to choose the Jishi of the day). The newcomer worshiped the bride's parents and elders. After that, the bride received the bride to the new home. Worshiping God. Usually Chinese weddings are to send a red envelope to show auspiciousness. There are no specific standards for gifts. Usually, you can get 100 MIT when you come to participate. I just have my own mind. "Rarely like thousands of domestic ones!
above is the ordinary wedding mode of Malaysians. The following is a personal experience of just becoming a Malaysian Chinese daughter -in -law:
1 1. Select Liangchen Ji Ri bride in the morning to pick up the bride
. The two are the same as the bride's parents. Well, the next one will be different
3. After receiving the groom's house, first worship the ancestor. The eldest son of the Chinese general usually has the ancestor tablet, so you must first worship the man's ancestors. Go to his uncle's house.
4. Worshiping a good ancestor, the groom's family arranged two special chairs, and then a round of tea to pay for all relatives and elders, even if my sister had to respect it. For example, Grandpa and grandma are sitting first. We give them tea. The generation is also given, the younger is cash. In the old era, this is the older thing! To kneel on the ground, you must respect all the people. JMS has already said, I can't eat this, I don't think it can be eaten. However, in the portions of those gold and silver jewelry and red envelopes, I endured it.
5. Waiting for a large circle of tea, it is basically late, so go to the hotel to wait for the opening! Malaysian Chinese wedding banquets usually start from 6:30 to 7:30 in the evening. There will be some celebration rituals during the table. The dishes of the wedding banquet are usually 6-8. Each serving is only one, and then the dish is served after eating. After that, there are main meals, desserts and sugar water. Before drinking wedding wine, there is still a sign -in ceremony. At that time, everyone still has to prepare a red envelope to indicate the gift of wedding wine!
6. After dinner, they usually dispersed, but friends with good relationships with young people may get together next. The red envelopes are too late! Basically, this is the process of Chinese wedding!